The Getting Married Getting Sex Factor

Tonight I am watching a random disk from a random season of "Friends". It just happens to be an episode about a couple getting married and both parties (man and woman) are both worried about never having first kisses again and never having sex with anyone else. And now I post the question: "If you feel you're going to want to have sex/love with someone else in the future, then why are you getting married?"

I understand that even when you are married it is ok to find other people attractive and so on, but if you feel you're going to want to act on said attraction in the future then maybe it's time to reevaluate your relationship. Holy run on sentence! But in all honesty if that is how you feel, maybe take a step back and look at the bigger picture. Are you really okay with being with one person for the rest of your life. If not STOP! Stop and make sure that you're okay with the fact that you might end your relationship one day. If you are okay with this, PROCEED.

All in all, it's just a matter of knowing yourself (in my opinion). If you know that you can be completely committed to one person for life (or long period of time) then take the leap. If you're not sure then take a step back for a minute. And once you've decided whether or not you can be committed, stop and think if you're future love can be. But that's an entirely different situation for a different day. This has been another issue of "Many of You Will Disagree But I Don't Give A Shit So Suck It Up" magazine. Enjoy the opinions.